BY MEG STREET
AfterEllen
There are plenty of drawbacks when you’re gay and trying to get married – not being able to legally tie the knot in most places being chief among them. But, the fact that same-sex marriage and gay weddings are a relatively new does arm us with one secret weapon: we can more easily opt out of wedding traditions that feel outdated or just don’t fit our styles.
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