Get ready: Relationship drama, self-love lessons ahead

Life by the Numbers headerBY MICHELLE ARBEAU
Celebrity Numerologist

Let the games (and the fun) begin. June is the number of the month of extremes (six) and has a strong positive and negative side. Which one you fall into depends on your perception at any given moment because six is the creative visionary number. You are the micro to the macro, a Godlike creator of your own reality this month. Only you get to choose what lens you use to view the world around you. Succumb to the drama or rise above it. The choice is yours.

I won’t sugar coat it, expect lots of shifting in the relationship department. Six is all about starting, ending and changing our relationship connections. It doesn’t only apply to intimate relationships either. Friends, family, co-workers and even the inner dialogue and relationship you’ve got going on with yourself is going to see some fairly life altering shifting this June. It’s intensified too because 2014 is all about getting to the core of the matter and only allowing into our sphere those people, places and things that resonate with us completely. Unfortunately, this can mean letting go of long-standing toxic relationships that aren’t as easy to let go of as you’d hoped. Lace up your boxing gloves because you’re heading into the relationship ring.

Relationship challenges are often a result of misunderstandings or miscommunication. Starting the week off right, we’ve got the freedom of expression number five to help us tell it like it is and say what we truly want to get out and off our chest. The downside is that five is also the number of the heart and emotions. It is an unpredictable or erratic flowing energy. Emotions could cloud your better judgment today and you could wind up saying things you regret.

Our emotional self is a reflection of how we really feel, want and need but when the emotional waters are high and turbulent, it’s hard to make sense of what you’re feeling. It’s a good idea to step back and take a deep breath before you speak, otherwise Sunday could spark a raging fire and set the stage for far more drama than you anticipated.

On a side note, it will be a highly creative career day where new ideas will be jumping out at you from unexpected sources and places. Pay attention to the signs.

Gulp. This is a double whammy six day (month and sum of date both six). There’s nothing like getting right down to business with this relationship stuff. As the number of extremes, it could be a real life Armageddon or night of the living dead out there because it will seem like everyone you come in contact with will be lunging to take a piece out of you. Six causes people to over-analyze, over-think and fall prey to the worry-wart syndrome. Glass half empty thinking and negative Nelly behavior is uninhibited today. If you have to be at the office today, steer clear of the gossip queens or busy bodies because they’ll be the catalysts who have no self control whatsoever at the moment.

Lay low and stay out of the line of enemy fire. The energy is way too over the top to make any real progress (just superficial, nit-picking fights), so it’s best to keep a low profile and ride it out. If you’re lucky enough to have some alone time today, it could prove to be super creative with moments of genius. Six is also the number of creativity and creative expression and in doubles, you’re definitely in the creative zone.

Today’s the day you get raw and real with you. You knew the time was coming where you’d have to finally lay all your cards on the table for a hard, close look. You’ve been picking away at it for several months, but judgment day has arrived and you’re poised to have some major ah-ha breakthroughs. Not only by working through your own relationship connections this week, but by being the observer to other relationship battles going on around you, it has opened your eyes to who you truly want in your life. This is the moment of truth when you realize not everyone you have a connection with is good for you and it’s time to move on.

Friendship shifting is a biggie this June and your peer group might see a whole lot of shuffling before the month’s end. Let’s face it. You’re not getting any younger and those friends who still party like it’s 1999 aren’t as appealing as they used to be. The more real you get with yourself right now, the more you’ll be seeking the meaningful connections. Life’s too short for meaningless experiences that leave you more in a state of regret than reward. It’s time to prune the dead wood.

The weight has been somewhat lifted as you cut the ties to deadbeat friends and connections who only come around when they need something from you. You’re standing tall in your personal power today as the number of confidence, assertiveness and doubtless wisdom filters in eight. You’ve been the doormat for far too long. You feel good about the decisions you’ve been making this week. The purge feels cleansing and it’s much less painful than you’d anticipated. You’ve made way for new, positive connections to make their way into your life.

Pruning makes way for new growth and you’re ready to attract relationships that meet you on the same page. Eight is all about attracting what you desire (number of abundance and manifestation) so be sure to send out the right vibe today. Unexpected chance meetings could be plentiful today. Get out there with your confident self and you’ll find your energy will start to attract what you’ve been looking for in a friend, partner or any other kind of relationship. Out with the old, in with the new.

With a much lighter drama load, you’re free and clear to make some life-altering choices that require no need for approval from anyone else. It’s self-love time and the only person you should be concerned with pleasing today is YOU. It’s a big dreamer day with the highest change number of nine sending a ripple through your aura. Don’t sweat the small stuff today, it’s about big picture dreaming because you’re dying to take the bull by the horns in the most creative month of the year.

Big change starts with big dreams and that’s just where your mind is at right now. The fine print will take care of itself at some point. Your first round of relationship boxing is behind you this week (more to come early next) and there’s no room for nit-picking on cloud nine.

Lights, camera, action! You’ve shuffled, shaped and pruned your world and now it’s time to step out into the spotlight to show the world your shiny new metals of honor and battle scars. You’ve survived some pretty nasty energy this week and you deserve a pat on the back. Not the procrastinator you thought you were, you can really pull up your sleeves and get the job done when push comes to shove. Today is the 10-one, and one is the number of new beginnings, the pioneer and trailblazer. You’re basking in the glory of your victories and it’s time to celebrate. Instead of being the pioneer you’re going to use the one energy in a different physical sense, having a good time. If you’re feeling silly and ready to let loose, go for it because that’s just what the day calls for. The 10 energy likes to keep life light and airy, preferring to sweep more serious problems under the rug to deal with later. Tens know how to have a good time so follow the lead of the 10 energy today. Rewarding yourself is an important part of the process. Life can’t be all work and no play.

You’re shifting 180 today from outward action to inner contemplation. This is another pure 20-two day where the energy is subdued and quiet but there’s an added element of sensitivity today. Be careful not to fall victim to the what-if scenario game or second guess your decisions right now. Since the outer energy of the month is the flip-floppy number of extremes six, Saturday’s tone of self-examination may draw you down into a darker place where it may be hard to pull yourself out of without some effort. Although this is the most gentle day of the week energetically speaking, it could prove to be the most destructive in terms of relationship connections because emotions (and sensitivities of all kinds) are on hyper-alert. Impulsiveness is at all-time high for the next 24 hours while we’re leading with emotions (two) coupled with irrational thought processes (six in negative).

The two energy can also be very dualistic (insecure and co-dependent in the negative), so it could send you back into the trenches you started in this week (I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to end my week like that). The saving grace with the two is it’s ability to move you into an intuitive space where you doubt nothing and carry a sense that everything is as it should be without knowing why or how. Keep your focus on that inner, soft, still voice today because it’s the only voice that really knows what it’s talking about this week.

Michelle Arbeau is an internationally recognized celebrity numerologist, author, inspirational speaker and radio/TV host. She has a Hollywood clientele base that includes “Twilight” vampires, a “Big Bang Theory” actress, “Pirates of the Caribbean” actor, an NBC director, celebrity stylist and many more.

A media favorite and considered an expert in her field, Michelle is frequently a repeat guest on national outlets such as CBC Radio, CTV Morning Live, Breakfast Television and LA Talk Radio. Her newly released books, “The Energy of Words: Use the Vibration to Manifest the Life You Desire” and “Soul Numbers: Decipher the Message from Your Inner Self to Successfully Navigate Life” are the product of combining her love of numbers with her passion for helping others to find purpose, meaning and joy in life. Learn more at

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