Enjoy the calm before the relationship storm

Life by the Numbers headerBY MICHELLE ARBEAU
Celebrity Numerologist
for Lesbian.com

Everything is coming up twos this week. It’s creating a calm before the storm effect or maybe more appropriately labeled the eye of the hurricane. June is fast approaching and with it brings the unearthing of more relationship stuff. Thankfully this round, unlike the past months in 2014, is more about the relationship you have with yourself and your view of life. It’s less drama-filled when there’s only one in the argument, but it doesn’t mean it won’t be tough waters to navigate at times.

This week is eerily serene and subdued with not much in the way of inner or outer action. Energy ebbs and flows, so this is an ebb week for sure. Your gut reaction is to keep looking over your shoulder waiting for the other shoe to drop, but you can be rest assured there are no strings attached with this energy. It’s chock full of two energy, the number of intuition, sensitivity, peace, harmony and cooperation. In other words, you’re walking on easy street so enjoy it while it lasts.

The perfect way to stay a laid back week is with a cat in the sunshine 10 energy. Anyone whose a 10 Life Path will attest to the fact that 10 energy would rather sweep problems under the rug to be dealt with another day. They like to keep life light and airy, preferring not to delve too deeply into life’s drama and chaos. The 10 energy knows how to kick back and relax when it’s called for and today’s the day. After all, it is Sunday, the day of rest. To top it off, it’s Memorial Day weekend. Poolside cocktails for all! This will prove to be one of your least productive days in a very long time but it’s just what the doctor ordered.

With twos showing up in multiples in every date this week, Monday is the ring leader with it’s pure 20-two energy. You can’t get much more subdued and blissful than a pure two day. The lull turns to a hush and you might even find yourself not wanting to engage verbally today. 2 isn’t necessarily hermit energy but it boycotts drama in all forms. This is a day to keep it light in terms of every element — from food to music selections. A bathrobe, classical music and fruit salad it is then. Plus, it’s a holiday today so you have more than enough reasons to fall off the radar and enjoy your own company for a change.

Today is a bit more bubbly with the number 3 fluttering in as the social butterfly energy but don’t get too excited yet. This 3 combo is a 21/3 with the 2 holding the reins and the pioneering, trailblazing number 1 in the inner or subdued position. Staying with the common denominator of the week, 2 is keeping you calm, cool and collected. You may be up for an intimate and casual backyard BBQ with a few friends or family but that’s the extent of your inner party animal today. Normally 3 is about taking things in intellectually, wanting to absorb information but you have no interest in learning new tricks right now. You’re still perfectly content to just chill so chill on my sista. You may be wondering: Where was this off switch a few weeks ago?

Wednesday is a 4 day but not just any 4 day. It’s a 22/4. The 2’s still have a foothold so even though the tone of the day is the practical, foundation building 4, it’s focus is going to be tweaked to the gentler version of the doing number. The flip side of the 4 is the desire to prune or clean out your closet, literally and figuratively. Dig out those old boxes in storage and get rid of what no longer fits in your life. The foundational shifting today won’t be about building your empire but rather will consist mainly of sorting, purging and cleaning. The cleansed feeling that comes from it will be like you’re dancing in the rain.

The gentle two energy is holding strong even in the midst of the erratic free-flowing five. Thursday’s tone is the number of the heart and emotions representing freedom of expression (five). Under normal circumstances, the five would take you on a joy ride through rough and tumble terrain, but today’s version of the five is much more even toned.

It’s the 23-five, with the gentle and supportive two keeping things keeled. Even the inspirational cheerleader/social butterfly 3 is in the inner or subdued position. This combination means you’ll wear the hat of the natural counselor today since you’re surprisingly in control of your emotions. Since your emotional waters are quite still, it’s a good day to examine your emotions to see what insights they might be sharing with you about particular situations in your life. Kinda like seeing your reflection in a still pool of water — there’s a window into your soul today.

Now, here’s where the energy starts to shift a bit as we edge closer to June’s doorstep. Today is a 6 day and the first day of the week where there isn’t an overabundance of subdued two energy. As a preview to June, today’s focus is on the relationship you have with yourself. It’s a self-nurturing day so be gentle with your mind, body and soul. Six has a tendency toward the worry-wart syndrome so be mindful you don’t get caught up in over-thinking/over-analyzing mode. As women, we tend to care for everyone else but ourselves so the art of self-nurturing can be something we’re not exactly skilled at it. If you’re having a hard time doting on you, pick one thing that you would consider a treat and do or buy it for yourself. A little self-love goes a long way.

Here we go! It’s the final day of May and we’ve pretty much got ourselves a diving board to leap into June in a big way. Today is a 16-seven which is a volatile inner change that wants us to turn the page or do a 180 shift. It doesn’t mess around when it comes to pushing us to take the plunge. Most importantly, we’re ending the month on the number of the truth-seeker giving us one last chance to be sure we’re being authentic in every way before we start Relationship June. If you know you’re ready to take the leap, that’s great. If you still feel like you’re holding onto things that don’t resonate with you, today is your chance to come clean and clean house.

Michelle Arbeau is an internationally recognized celebrity numerologist, author, inspirational speaker and radio/TV host. She has a Hollywood clientele base that includes “Twilight” vampires, a “Big Bang Theory” actress, “Pirates of the Caribbean” actor, an NBC director, celebrity stylist and many more.

A media favorite and considered an expert in her field, Michelle is frequently a repeat guest on national outlets such as CBC Radio, CTV Morning Live, Breakfast Television and LA Talk Radio. Her newly released books, “The Energy of Words: Use the Vibration to Manifest the Life You Desire” and “Soul Numbers: Decipher the Message from Your Inner Self to Successfully Navigate Life” are the product of combining her love of numbers with her passion for helping others to find purpose, meaning and joy in life. Learn more at www.MichelleArbeau.com.

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