BY KATHY BELGE
LesbianLife at About.com
Is it possible to make someone fall in love with you? If you’re in a relationship with someone who is hesitant to jump fully in, can you do anything to help her make the leap? That’s the question I received today from someone who fell in love with her best friend. She thinks her friend is not ready to fully fall in because of family issues and internalized homophobia. I wonder if something else may be going on.
I have a female friend who has been separated from her husband for some time now due to her husband’s infidelity. She has two daughters living with her who are now in college.
I do not how it actually started but one day I just realized that I am beginning to have special feelings for her beyond the normal course of friendship. So I gathered my strength and began asking her leading questions in order to get the feel if she is into same sex relationship.
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